I'm new here, and have just purchased some equipment to start brewing beer while we're in isolation. I have a potentially stupid question, but I read online that oxygenating my wort before I pitch the yeast with pure oxygen will achieve the best results (as opposed to aeration). I bought one of these oxygen tanks that all the videos I watched online seemed to have:

All the videos and blogs online that I've been reading have said all I need to do is grab a regulator and a diffusion stone, and throw a piece of tubing in between and voila, easy.
Now, I went to Home Depot, Canadian Tire, Kent, and Princess Auto and no one had any idea what I was talking about. Furthermore, no one had a regulator that was the right size to fit this specific canister (which also happens to seemingly be the only canister available besides medical grade). I asked the guys at Noble Grape if they had any sort of hookups for this sort of thing and they all seemed puzzled also.
I need help! Does anyone run this kind of system? It seemed really common from the videos I've watched online, and it was definitely frustrating that it's seemingly impossible to go to a hardware store and get the parts I need to get oxygen into my wort.
Fair warning, I'm a total idiot when it comes to both brewing and DIY stuff, so bear with me, and talk to me like I'm 9 years old haha.
Thanks all!
Josh